In today’s episode, we’re diving into a question many in our community have been quietly (or loudly) asking: Has Pride lost its meaning?
In this wi...
Dating as a Demisexual
Jun 05 2025 • 01:13:38
In this episode, Matt speaks with a panel of demisexual gay men about their experiences dating as demisexuals. What we want you to get out of this epi...
Why Are Gay Friendships So Hard?
May 29 2025 • 00:53:46
For many gay men, friendship is complicated, performative, and sometimes downright painful. We crave genuine connection but end up navigating cliques,...
The Reparenting Process
May 22 2025 • 00:53:54
How do the unmet needs of our childhood shape who we are today? And more importantly, how do we learn to meet those needs for ourselves as adults?
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How to Not Lose Yourself in Your Relationships
May 15 2025 • 00:53:52
In this episode, Matt speaks with therapist and author, Tom Bruett, about how to avoid losing yourself in your relationships. By balancing connection ...
Why Gay Men Love Divas
May 08 2025 • 00:44:16
From Madonna to Mariah, Beyoncé to Barbra— throughout the generations, gay men have been obsessed with divas. But why?
In this episode of Gay Men G...
The Women in Our Lives
May 01 2025 • 00:46:02
The women in our lives have influenced us in ways we don’t always recognize, but when we take a step back, their impact is undeniable.
In this hear...
People Pleasing, Boundaries, and Fear of Conflict
Apr 24 2025 • 00:52:47
Do you find yourself putting other people’s needs ahead of your own? Struggle to set boundaries? Feel responsible for keeping the peace even when it c...
The Power of No
Apr 17 2025 • 00:44:53
Many gay men struggle with saying no, setting boundaries, or engaging in difficult conversations due to deep-seated people-pleasing tendencies and fea...
Eroticizing Shame - Turning Pain Into Pleasure
Apr 10 2025 • 00:53:51
In this episode, Matt speaks with Psychotherapist, Merle Yost, about how shame may influence sexual desire and arousal by eroticizing shame as a way o...
