In gay culture, “body count” refers to how many people you’ve slept with. And whether it’s high or low, it often feels like a no-win situation. Have a...
Why So Many “Confident” Guys Are Secretly Insecure
Feb 12 2026 • 00:48:55
Gay culture rewards visibility, desirability, and dominance, so a lot of what looks like confidence is actually performance under pressure. In this ep...
The Slow Build in Romantic Relationships
Feb 05 2026 • 00:31:30
Everyone says they want a “slow build” in dating… right up until chemistry hits and judgement leaves the building.
In this off-the-cuff episode, we...
Why Gay Men Are Talking About Heated Rivalry
Jan 29 2026 • 00:22:33
Gay Men Going Deeper has never done an episode about a TV show before. There’s a reason we did this one. Heated Rivalry isn’t just popular. It landed ...
Will I Be Single Forever?
Jan 22 2026 • 00:49:05
It’s a question many gay men quietly carry… especially after heartbreak, disappointment, or years of trying.
In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, ...
How to Build Unshakeable Confidence
Jan 15 2026 • 00:53:43
This episode of Gay Men Going Deeper is less of a casual conversation and more of a confidence masterclass. One you’ll likely want to come back to aga...
Standards vs. Boundaries in Dating
Jan 08 2026 • 00:28:06
In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest dating myths gay men love to repeat: “My standards are too high.” But sometimes the problem is...
Single and Ready to Mingle
Jan 01 2026 • 00:51:03
In this episode, Michael and Matt get personal about what we love about being single, how we knew we were ready to start dating again, and what we wan...
When Attraction Fades
Dec 25 2025 • 00:24:47
Why does attraction fade- and what can we do about it? In this episode, we get real about attraction in long-term relationships. The spark doesn’t al...
What’s Really Sexy (and Nobody Talks About It)
Dec 18 2025 • 00:40:35
After unpacking our culture’s obsession with “perfect” bodies, this week we’re flipping the script. In this episode, we’re celebrating what’s actually...
