Liked by Everyone, Chosen by No One: The Nice Guy Trap
Jul 09 2026 |
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Liked by Everyone, Chosen by No One: The Nice Guy Trap
Jul 09 2026 • 00:49:03
A lot of gay men pride themselves on being “nice”— easygoing, agreeable, low-drama. But what if that’s exactly why you’re not getting what you want?
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How to Elevate Your Hookups
Jun 25 2026 • 00:31:50
Hookups get a bad rap as shallow, transactional, or disconnected. But what if they could actually become a space for growth, awareness, and real conne...
The Daddy Issue: Our Relationships With Our Dads
Jun 11 2026 • 00:52:21
For many gay men, our relationship with our dad is one of the most defining- and least talked about. In this episode, we explore the nuances of our re...
“I Don’t Need Anyone”: Why Gay Men Struggle to Let Someone In
May 28 2026 • 00:36:06
A lot of gay men take pride in being independent, self-sufficient and in control. But is there a shadow side? When the time comes to let someone in, a...
Gay–Straight Bromance: Why We’re Drawn to Each Other
May 14 2026 • 00:43:49
There’s something unique about friendships between gay and straight men. They often feel easy, natural, and unexpectedly intimate.
In this episode,...
How To Deal With Haters (Without Getting Defensive)
Apr 30 2026 • 00:31:59
We’ve all dealt with them. And maybe we’ve probably been one too…
In this episode, we unpack what’s really going on beneath hate. Not just online t...
Busy, Stimulated, and Disconnected: Gay Men & Escapism
Apr 16 2026 • 00:31:17
What if the things you turn to for fun, pleasure, and productivity are also the ways you avoid your life?
In this episode, we explore escapism through...
Let’s Play! When Did Life Stop Being Fun?
Apr 02 2026 • 00:53:39
At what point did life stop being fun?
As kids, play came naturally. We were curious, spontaneous, and fully present. But for many adults, especial...
Masc for Masc: Preference or Internalized Homophobia?
Mar 26 2026 • 00:51:12
When a gay man says he’s attracted to masculine men, is that simply preference… or could internalized homophobia be part of the story?
In this epis...
Flakey Gays: Why is Follow-Through So Hard?
Mar 19 2026 • 00:31:09
The guy who constantly cancels plans, keeps things vague, or disappears when something better comes along — that’s flakiness: a pattern of not followi...
